There are many ways by which you might be harming your relationships. Often you are not aware of them. You use them in a routine manner, on automatic pilot. They’ve become your pattern of thought and behaviour. Not being aware of this situation, when your relationship fails you don’t take responsibility – and continue behaving in the same harmful manner with your next partner. In order to understand what you do wrong and how to change it, you need to develop Self-Awareness.
Ways in which you sabotage your relationships: